From the beginning.

So were do I start… suppose the best place is my motivation for starting this blog and to put things into words (which is not my greatest skill). We started this journey over 7 years ago now and I will get into that later, I love talking to my wife about things we have experienced over the years and we both enjoy the openness of our discussions. However, I like to talk a lot, and I mean a lot. So much so that I sometimes feel I need to give my wife a break (which she never says btw) and wish I had someone to share my thoughts with who is on the same wave length. I have not actually told any of my closest friends and felt this would be a good outlet for me to tell some stories and put my feelings into words.

I love my wife more than anything in the world, she is the best thing that has ever happened to me. We are incredibly close and have the best relationship. To look at us we are just a normal couple, we have a child and both work very hard. We have a great group of friends and do all the normal things like everyone else. My wife is a great mum, friend and wife. But we hide a naughty secret………

Neither of us can tell you exactly how we started talking about joining the lifestyle, but I do remember when I told my wife how I wanted to see her with another man, the excitement I saw on her face was confirmation that we would be taking things past more than just dirty bedroom talk. I did get the usual question of “Does this mean you want to sleep with other women?”, but this is something that has never really interested me, and Keeley was not keen on the idea at all. We didnt really know much about the lifestyle but I love a good google search and got to work searching for a third to join us. We found fabswingers.co.uk and quickly made a profile.

We nearly gave up many times. Its actually not as easy as you would think, so many dick pics and time wasters. But we never gave up and eventually we connected with someone……..